Sunday, April 17, 2011

Re: [Everything doTERRA] Help!! Extreme mood swings, sobbing, irritability and emotional distress

Everyone's given you great suggestions on the oils, Lavender, Patchouli, Past Tense, Serenity and Balance were all going to be my suggestions as well. I know right now you can't be your own expert, you're feeling lost and overwhelmed, and yes, you're in mourning. Your marriage and life as you have known it for many years has died, and it's normal to mourn that. 

I just want to add my love, prayers, and support. Don't give in to despair, you're worth more than that, and your children need you right now too. Look around and take stock of what you have. What do you have that you can sell? Jewelry, good china, books you no longer read (Half Priced Books buys them), excess furniture in the basement or attic? Yard sale weather is coming up too. And if you have to, try to get a job. You're not making that much on UEB, you could possibly earn more by working while you build your doTERRA business. 

I'd suggest reading "The Secret" at this time, and other books about manifesting your dreams. After I lost my last husband to cancer, I left my job (I hated it) and went into what I called "temporary retirement" on the insurance money. That ran out at about the time the bottom fell out of the job market, and I spent two years working temp jobs and living on a wing and a prayer. I had to sell all of my good jewelry, including the pendant and rings I considered sacred that I wore, because in a choice between eating and having gas or having jewelry to wear, I chose food and gas. During this time I asked what lesson I needed to learn, and when I started living "an attitude of gratitude" my life turned around. Remember that like attracts like, and thereby only positive attracts positive. 

It's not easy in times like this to do, but try to remember that everything happens for a reason, and take this time to learn who Rebecca is now, and find your strengths and passions. Embrace life, and while you find your way back to joy, find ways to keep going. As difficult as it is, don't let this take you down. You have a support system in your doTERRA family. I'm also here if you want to call or email me.

Blessings, Love, and Light,
~Diane Jarecki
Reiki Master Teacher
Spiritual Teacher
Wellness Coach
724-513-0055

"This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness." ~Dalai Lama

"I expect to pass through life but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again." ~William Penn



On Sat, Apr 16, 2011 at 9:43 PM, Oils For Thought <doterra@live.com> wrote:
Hello my fellow doterra ipc's and essential oil user.  I really need
your expertise.  Recently I received news that my husband wants to
seperate and move out (which he did so today).  After 9 years and two
beautiful children, my marriage is over and I am devastated. Everytime
I think about him and us I sob.  I can't sleep.  My migraines are
coming on and won't stop.  I can't eat and I have to force myself to
eat just so I have something in my stomach.  I find that I am
constantly cleaning and keeping myself busy, which I know is a good
thing.  I am currently unemployed and have been since july 28, 2010.
I only receive $214 from UI every week and my husband will give me
$200 a week for child support.  My mortgage is over a $1000.  I can't
make the payments and now I am going to lose my home.  I am so angry,
confused, disappointed, sad, lonely and I am not sure of the future.
At 40 years of age I am starting over and I do mean over.  I at times
feel like I am mourning, and I guess this might be a good thing.  I
know I need to be strong and positive for my children and Lord knows I
am doing my best.  But I do need some assistance and I know there has
to be some oils that can help me with this.

If anyone has ideas, please pass them on.

Rebecca

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