Sunday, January 10, 2010

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1a.

Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Carrie Schillinger" carrieschillinger@yahoo.com   carrieschillinger

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:23 am (PST)



Hi Nandie,
 
I've never had this problem with my child, but I have read a few articles on this for other parents.  There is a website that talks about this problem.  I am giving you a link to this and you can read this over for yourself and try their suggestions.
 
 
http://www.ehow.com/how_4921676_child-overcome-nightmares-sleep-terrors.html
 
I hope this helps.
 
Carrie
 
IFrom: Nandie <npaich@yahoo.com>
Subject: [mompowergroup] How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, January 7, 2010, 6:21 PM

 

My son is a very emotional child, he takes live very serious and everything is a What if?. He started having nightmares and refuses to go to sleep at night unless I promise to sleep by him and stay there, I have tried getting up after he's fallen asleep, but he always wakes up. He can't remember his dreams, just that he was very scared. I don't allow him to watch scary movies and nothing major has happened which could upset him. Please help?

1b.

Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Kim Bruce" kim.bruce@hpmg.com   kimbruceus

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:23 am (PST)



My son had this problem up to the day we moved him from his sister's room to his own. He was 11. They grow out of it.....just hang on and be supportive.

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From: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com [mailto:mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Nandie
Sent: Thursday, January 07, 2010 10:21 AM
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [mompowergroup] How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

My son is a very emotional child, he takes live very serious and everything is a What if?. He started having nightmares and refuses to go to sleep at night unless I promise to sleep by him and stay there, I have tried getting up after he's fallen asleep, but he always wakes up. He can't remember his dreams, just that he was very scared. I don't allow him to watch scary movies and nothing major has happened which could upset him. Please help?

1c.

Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Jody Mort" jlmort19@yahoo.com   jlmort19

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:25 am (PST)



Hello! It sounds like his confidence needs boosting & he needs to feel secure. Also I've learned with my children that re-enforcing to them that my job is to keep them safe & that I will not let anything hurt them. They see me lock the doors & check everything. Build on the feeling of security in your home. I had to sleep with my kids for a while & get up after they feel asleep , it didn't fix itself overnight. It took time. I also let them know that I checked on them many times during the night. I hope this helps.
Take Care
Jody

 

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From: Nandie <npaich@yahoo.com>
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thu, January 7, 2010 10:21:09 AM
Subject: [mompowergroup] How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

 
My son is a very emotional child, he takes live very serious and everything is a What if?. He started having nightmares and refuses to go to sleep at night unless I promise to sleep by him and stay there, I have tried getting up after he's fallen asleep, but he always wakes up. He can't remember his dreams, just that he was very scared. I don't allow him to watch scary movies and nothing major has happened which could upset him. Please help?

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Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "T M" wwjdcutcy2@yahoo.com   littlemamaj08

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:26 am (PST)



My daughter is 16 months n she sometimes wakes up screaming now shes nowhere near 7 but if but out of curiousity is his father around? He may be going threw feelings n thoughts that u wont be there when he wakes up n that in turn turns into a nightmare also if he attends school sometimes children can be very mean n could be filling his head w negatives.. Just some ideas.. God Bless you and hope these nightmares go away for your son!
-----Original Message-----
Date: Friday, January 08, 2010 6:26:26 am
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
From: "Nandie" <npaich@yahoo.com>
Subject: [mompowergroup] How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

My son is a very emotional child, he takes live very serious and everything is a What if?. He started having nightmares and refuses to go to sleep at night unless I promise to sleep by him and stay there, I have tried getting up after he's fallen asleep, but he always wakes up. He can't remember his dreams, just that he was very scared. I don't allow him to watch scary movies and nothing major has happened which could upset him. Please help?

2a.

How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Ann Garcia" garciaann78@yahoo.com   garciaann78

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:23 am (PST)



My son went thur the same thing. Maybe he saw a scary commerical.They allow such gross things on Tv now.My son too is always with his "what if" .It is a habit that i have had to help him break. He doesn't realize he says  it, unless i bring it up.My son is 10 now but for 7 yrs the nightmares were always there.I don't allow scary movies in my house but when he was 3 he went to his grandma house and they were watching chuckie( i wasnt there) and that scared his little mind for years.He is better now.Be patient with him and get him some help.

2b.

How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Mary Iffert" maryjo60123@yahoo.com   maryjo60123

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:28 am (PST)



how about reading the Berenstein Bears book on Dreams before going to sleep at night, stressing that he is in control as the book suggests?

3a.

Re: looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "Diane Olson" booklover1@ymail.com   booklover1@ymail.com

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:23 am (PST)



Play scrabble! Or whatever game you like.

Diane Olson

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From: sarika8282 <sarika8282@yahoo.com>
does anyone have any ideas of what 2 or 3 moms could do while their kids played in the same or next room? it would have to be something fairly easy! thanks.

3b.

looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "S.Moghaddam" sfayazmoghadam@yahoo.com   sfayazmoghadam

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:24 am (PST)




Hi
 
You can do something that you really love it such as learning a new language a new coure about house work  or watching a nice movie and discuse about it's subjekt .
Sima

 
 

3c.

Re: looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "Diane Carman" dcgreetingcake@yahoo.com   dcgreetingcake

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:24 am (PST)



Have you ever thought about scrapbooking.     I love the Creative Memories concept and at one time use to be a consultant.     You can even start with just the pages without buying an album right away, and BUY ONLY for what pictures you are putting in the album at that time.  

--- On Thu, 1/7/10, sarika8282 <sarika8282@yahoo.com> wrote:
does anyone have any ideas of what 2 or 3 moms could do while their kids played in the same or next room? it would have to be something fairly easy! thanks.

3d.

Re: looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "ajbermack@verizon.net" ajbermack@verizon.net   ajbermack

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:25 am (PST)



Hi.
To me, there's nothing better than cooking together! Here at CWF,
we actually call it "playdate cooking". While the kids play,
the moms throw something together and let it bake or cook.
There's nothing better than getting something accomplished while
hanging out with friends. I couldn;t agree more! If you've
never done it before, my suggestion is to start out with
something simple. Often times (as I mentioned in a previous
e-mail) we make granola together since it takes only a few
minutes to mix ingredients and then it bakes while you hang out.
We often throw together some banana bread too. If you're looking
to get some dinner accomplished, we often will make huge batches
of tomato sauce since it doesn't take long to prepare and then it
simmers on the stove while you continue to talk, and the kids
play. There's nothing as yummy as the smell of garlic and basil
simmering on the stove while you and your friends spend time
together. And then you all leave with a few quarts of sauce!
Dinner for the night. I started a Yahoo group specifically for
cooking together if you're interested, as well as a website and
e-newsletter. Let me know and good luck.
Alison
Alison J. Bermack
On Jan 8, 2010, sarika8282 <sarika8282@yahoo.com> wrote:
 
hi!

i went to a playdate this morning with a friend who also has a 2
year old daughter. while our girls played together nicely (for
the most part) for 2 hours, we started discussing how it would be
nice to "do something" next time we met while the girls played.
although it was nice to just have some adult conversation and
chat, we really felt that it would be nice to chat while doing
"something" at the same time, but we're just not sure what. maybe
knit together? cook something fun? do a 1000 piece puzzle? does
anyone have any ideas of what 2 or 3 moms could do while their
kids played in the same or next room? it would have to be
something fairly easy! thanks.


3e.

Re: looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "crayonthief" crayonthief@yahoo.com   crayonthief

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:25 am (PST)





Board games are a fun idea. Maybe scrapbooking. As you said cooking something, maybe creative cupcakes or something of the sort that the kids would enjoy also.

--- In mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com, "sarika8282" <sarika8282@...> wrote:
>
> hi!
>
> i went to a playdate this morning with a friend who also has a 2 year old daughter. while our girls played together nicely (for the most part) for 2 hours, we started discussing how it would be nice to "do something" next time we met while the girls played. although it was nice to just have some adult conversation and chat, we really felt that it would be nice to chat while doing "something" at the same time, but we're just not sure what. maybe knit together? cook something fun? do a 1000 piece puzzle? does anyone have any ideas of what 2 or 3 moms could do while their kids played in the same or next room? it would have to be something fairly easy! thanks.
>

3f.

Re: looking for playdate ideas

Posted by: "T M" wwjdcutcy2@yahoo.com   littlemamaj08

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:28 am (PST)



When my daughter n I go see our friends we cook or bake or go shopping together.
-----Original Message-----
Date: Friday, January 08, 2010 6:27:30 am
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
From: "sarika8282" <sarika8282@yahoo.com>
Subject: [mompowergroup] looking for playdate ideas

hi!

i went to a playdate this morning with a friend who also has a 2 year old daughter. while our girls played together nicely (for the most part) for 2 hours, we started discussing how it would be nice to "do something" next time we met while the girls played. although it was nice to just have some adult conversation and chat, we really felt that it would be nice to chat while doing "something" at the same time, but we're just not sure what. maybe knit together? cook something fun? do a 1000 piece puzzle? does anyone have any ideas of what 2 or 3 moms could do while their kids played in the same or next room? it would have to be something fairly easy! thanks.

4a.

Re: HELLO!

Posted by: "ROBERT PANKEWICZ" rpankiewicz@webtv.net   robertpankiewicz

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:24 am (PST)




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Date: Thu, 7 Jan 2010 17:10:28 +0530
Subject: Re: [mompowergroup] HELLO!

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Subject: [mompowergroup] HELLO!

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5a.

Hi Everyone

Posted by: "DoriF" dorifritzinger@yahoo.com   dorifritzinger

Sat Jan 9, 2010 8:25 am (PST)



Hi everyone - I am new to this group.

I live on a small family farm in North Carolina. We have a multi-generational household consisting of my husband and me, our grown daughter and her 10 yo daughter. I also have other family members living next door or just across a pasture. My MIL 71 yo, my Father 83 yo, my Uncle 81 yo, my DIL 26 yo (son is deployed to conflict overseas.

I have been a freelance writer since the days of when the typewriters and snail-mail ruled. I keep a blog at: http://doriswanderings.wordpress.com
with recipes, family musing and a peek into what is going on in our lives.

Come sit a spell and visit.
Dori F

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