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1.: Re: 05 - [mompowergroup] MILF From: Ruthee Goldkorn

2a.: Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF From: Vickie Washburn
2b.: Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF From: Kirstie H

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1.: Re: 05 - [mompowergroup] MILF

Posted by: "Ruthee Goldkorn" knowbarriers@yahoo.com knowbarriers

Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:27 am (PST)

this is not just a slur, it is as demeaning as a friend if your kid calling mom a whore and if you think it is not, think again.

it is amazing how people believe a "personal preferance" has no affect on others. what exactly will the topic of conversation be at the next PTA meeting or school event? do people really think that there is no affect on the entire family and how the family is perceived in the community?

sorry. a hideous name with potential for illicit or even illegal activity is not a personal preference.

still married or not if dad is still in the family dynamic, how does he feel about this perception? does this perception not alter the relationship between father and chld and spouse or ex spouse and mom? you bet it does!

Ruthee Goldkorn

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Subject: 05 - [mompowergroup] MILF
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Date: Tuesday, January 26, 2010, 7:21 AM

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2a.: Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF

Posted by: "Vickie Washburn" ickyscuba@yahoo.com ickyscuba

Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:30 am (PST)

VERY WELL SAID RUTHEE. i find the term insulting and demeaning. Anything with the F word in it and realting to what someone would like to do to me or with me does not show that they are respecting me or are caring of me. they are only wanting to get personal gratification and in a very rude way.

Vickie

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From: Ruthee Goldkorn <knowbarriers@yahoo.com>
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Mon, January 25, 2010 10:50:20 AM
Subject: Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF

Do you people know what this stands for? "Mom's I'd Like To F---" is what MILF stands for. You are mothers first and women second or even further down the line when it comes to children; yours and everyone elses.

For your spouses, then the order is reversed in a healthy relationship, but for your kids to have conversations with their friends think who think of you sexually indicates that you have completely disolved yourself of your role as parent. Mom, thought of or discussed as a sexual being, is not just un-healthy, it is off the hook un-healthy and dangerous.

Are you kidding me? This you think is a compliment that your kids male friends who may be as young as 15 are fantasizing about having sex with you? If you are fantasizing about sex with a child, you have more problems than you think.

If you think it is a compliment to have a child fantasizing about having sex with you, then there are additional problems you need to recognize.

Oh, the power of a tawdry TV show about lazy parents with too much money and too much time on their hands. "Real Housewives of Orange County" is where this repulsive slang came from and the boys were actually describing sex with the mother of their friend.

Do you all not know this?

This is not a compliment, it is repugnant. It is the Oedipal Complex gone very, very, very wrong.

Ruthee Goldkorn

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Subject: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF
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Date: Monday, January 25, 2010, 6:46 AM

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2b.: Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF

Posted by: "Kirstie H" kirstie_mo@yahoo.com kirstiehague

Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:32 am (PST)

Moms,
I was serious about my comment below - this topic of conversation isn't really appropriate for our group, and it's time to move on. Further messages on this subject will be deleted without notice.

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> In any case, I don't think this is an appropriate line of conversation to continue in this group. It isn't particularly positive, and I'm sure we can find more empowering topics of conversation.
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> Kirstie
> Moderator, Mom Power Group
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