Re: [Everything doTERRA] Re: Help ! 4yrs old son

Really quickly--we had fits on the electronics too. We bought one of those clocks from a school supply that opens a wedge of red that gets smaller and smaller as the time goes out. Works so well we use them at school too. He can see the time going down and it takes away the randomness of the time--if they can't see it, they think it's arbitrary. So this way, it's the clock, not me that decides the time. I will send more on how to make the blankets tomorrow. I'm pooped. 

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On Dec 6, 2013, at 9:45 PM, Carolyn L <bayareahayhackers@gmail.com> wrote:

Thank you everyone....

some background information ....my four yrs has had 20 hours a week of ABA and 2.5 hours of speech a week. 

Currently regional center dropped ABA when he was close to turning three and school district is only giving us 30 minutes (because we plan to homeschool probably) and we pay out of pocket for Hayward State Speech and Language pathology for the 2 hours. $300 a semester. Their testing was also $300. This year we will be paying $1200 out of pocket for speech. 

Kaiser Seed program tested him behind in speech (we already knew that), pretend play and fine motor skills. 

This was done two weeks ago. 

I will be emailing his pediatrician to get him into the pediatrics autism program in Santa Clara. I heard it is good. 

Anyways, I have been thinking a weighted vest/blanket would be good for him. Definitely want to learn how to make it... Please send me to me at carolyn.lunger@yahoo.com or bayareahayhackers@gmail.com. I have tried slippling supplements in smoothes like enzymes, probiotics etc .  No dice. He will not drink any kind of smoothy shakes with powder in it. My step daughter have failure to thrive and I tried giving him their powder. He spat that out on the floor fast. Anything he doesn't like is spat in my face, or others or on the floor. 

He loves videos and video games like on Kindle, I pad , computers but getting him to transition from it is horrendous. Screams and shouts. So I try to avoid but in order for me to email  you guys he is watching Super Why right now 

Yes, I am trying to get my hands on some vetiver fast and he does well with Balance. Wild Orange makes him go nuts. I put Frankicense on him today and we went to go see the Nutcracker and managed very well. 

I think i am going to reapply now. 

Carolyn

On Friday, December 6, 2013 7:20:35 PM UTC-8, Shelly D wrote:

Charly, you are an amazing Mom.  Thank you for sharing that information.  

On Wednesday, December 4, 2013 2:38:01 AM UTC-5, Carolyn L wrote:

This is my second child diagnosed on the autism spectrum. 

I have tried a lot of things over the years. My oldest one (who is now 19yrs old) was a little more reasonable and compliant about things in general. He wanted to please. The second one is harder. This particular child will not take supplements of any kind. He barely even wants to eat sometimes. I am trying to modify his diet but it is really hard with him. 

So here is what we have to deal with and I need help NOW:

He bounces off the walls--can't stop moving. Jumps off furniture

Walks across the room and does somersaults

Hurts himself and others- have fallen down a huge flight of stairs, jumped out of a truck, hits and kicks people

Breaks things all the time-broke the mirrors in my truck, ripped out handles to cabinets/doors

Gets frequent bloody noses

Has loose stools frequently

Hits himself when frustrated

Lines objects up

Has had 20 hours of ABA therapy a week

Is in speech therapy 2.5 hours a week

delayed fine motor and with pretend play

Has major temper tantrums/rages

Gets overwhelmed with people and noises but can't play alone either

He yells/screams/whines no matter how much I put my foot down and not bend the rules.

Can't stop touching things/other people

Hoards 

Just bought him a terra cotta pendant today to wear around neck with EO ----just lost it at the park, can't tell me how, when or where about it. 

Is homeschooled (so I can have more flexibility in using EO throughout the day)

Walks in circles/paces

Think dairy and soy might make things worse-trial and error

Could care less about anyone;s feelings or pleasing anyone. 

Could care less if he hurt someone

Here is what we have used:

BALANCE --seems to help at first

Serenity-didn;t respond to this much

Elevation-this made him even crazier, but I do give him it when he is in a mental crying fit and sad

Rosemary-really don;t see much with this

Onguard-has kept him getting sick when others have been sick, he doesnt get sick too often though anyways

Peppermint-to help with his tummy issues, seems to be help firm up his BMs

Epson SALT Baths-these seem to mellow him out for about 5-15minutes but it makes his stools loose again

Massages-these also give him a relax mode as well of about 10 -20 minutes. 

What does other suggest? 

At wits end! 

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