Messages In This Digest (4 Messages)
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- Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF From: Ruthee Goldkorn
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- Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF From: Kirstie H
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- Re: HI Karen from Louisiana here. From: T M
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- MILF From: Michelle B. Cubas
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Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF
Posted by: "Ruthee Goldkorn" knowbarriers@yahoo.com knowbarriers
Tue Jan 26, 2010 6:45 am (PST)
Do you people know what this stands for? "Mom's I'd Like To F---" is what MILF stands for. You are mothers first and women second or even further down the line when it comes to children; yours and everyone elses.
For your spouses, then the order is reversed in a healthy relationship, but for your kids to have conversations with their friends think who think of you sexually indicates that you have completely disolved yourself of your role as parent. Mom, thought of or discussed as a sexual being, is not just un-healthy, it is off the hook un-healthy and dangerous.
Are you kidding me? This you think is a compliment that your kids male friends who may be as young as 15 are fantasizing about having sex with you? If you are fantasizing about sex with a child, you have more problems than you think.
If you think it is a compliment to have a child fantasizing about having sex with you, then there are additional problems you need to recognize.
Oh, the power of a tawdry TV show about lazy parents with too much money and too much time on their hands. "Real Housewives of Orange County" is where this repulsive slang came from and the boys were actually describing sex with the mother of their friend.
Do you all not know this?
This is not a compliment, it is repugnant. It is the Oedipal Complex gone very, very, very wrong.
Ruthee Goldkorn
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Subject: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF
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Date: Monday, January 25, 2010, 6:46 AM
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Re: 07 - [mompowergroup] MILF
Posted by: "Kirstie H" kirstie_mo@yahoo.com kirstiehague
Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:04 am (PST)
Both Ruthee and Michelle have made VERY good points about the term & its usage. It isn't a compliment, and it's a product and reflection of an element of society that chooses to value women based on their physical qualities only, disregarding anything else.
Think about it this way - how would your teenage child feel if a friend of his/hers described you using that term? Would you have wanted your friends to describe YOUR mother that way, or would you have been uncomfortable and embarrassed?
In any case, I don't think this is an appropriate line of conversation to continue in this group. It isn't particularly positive, and I'm sure we can find more empowering topics of conversation.
Kirstie
Moderator, Mom Power Group
--- In mompowergroup@yahoogroups. , Ruthee Goldkorn <knowbarriers@com ...> wrote:
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> Oh, the power of a tawdry TV show about lazy parents with too much money and too much time on their hands. "Real Housewives of Orange County" is where this repulsive slang came from and the boys were actually describing sex with the mother of their friend.
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> Do you all not know this?
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> This is not a compliment, it is repugnant. It is the Oedipal Complex gone very, very, very wrong.
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> Ruthee Goldkorn
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Re: HI Karen from Louisiana here.
Posted by: "T M" wwjdcutcy2@yahoo.com littlemamaj08
Tue Jan 26, 2010 6:48 am (PST)
To everyone who is replying e posting in this message.. As i said im dyslexic so when Lauren wrote to karen i miss read n i thought Lauren was saying all that n not quoting.. Ladys how old are your children? I may have a few tips that may help but depends on their age group and remember this your not alone and neither are your children the other children just don't know that they have these differences and you have the leg up now ur kids know they are not stupid but they learn different Please email me i may be able to help! wwjdcutcy2@yahoo.com Ty God Bless
-----Original Message-----
Date: Monday, January 25, 2010 6:28:08 am
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups. com
Cc: linda borowski <goddess7lady@yahoo.com >
From: "linda borowski" <goddess7lady@yahoo.com >
Subject: Re: [mompowergroup] HI Karen from Louisiana here.
you said it ,the person needs to want to be successful. well said i guess i need to stop being an enabler.
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From: T M <wwjdcutcy2@yahoo.com >
Lauren
I am add and Dyslexic now add isnt adhd but I had a hard time now mine isnt bad but I did summer school every year till I graduated but you need to talk to the teachers because some teachers dont know what to do or how to handle it.. and your son needs to want it.. If he doesnt have the drive its harder but the suport in knoing hes not alown or ur there no matter what happens it makes it easer.. Good Luck! Email me if you need any qs my dads also a teacher and he helps his students.. God Bless
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MILF
Posted by: "Michelle B. Cubas" mcubas@positivepotentials.com coachcubas
Tue Jan 26, 2010 6:50 am (PST)
Sometimes we're our own worst enemies. By finding any delight in a
slur, we perpetrate the issue, like blond jokes.
It's personal so if someone likes being referred to by an immature
sexual object, go for it. It's a personal preference
for how we wish to be perceived.
Michelle
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