Re: [Everything doTERRA] Re: peaceful child question

Great reply Jan,

I had my favorite smells (oils) and some I really disliked. I found that by lining them up in a row on my dresser, once a day or more, i open them and smell each one (deeply inhale several times) - I have noticed that some that I have loved - I still love but other that I really didn't like I started liking. Cypress and vetiver - I really didn't like them and now I do.



On , Jan Meredith <janessentials@peak.org> wrote:
> Taylene, I understand how difficult it can be to find causes and
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> poisonous substances, as well  various kinds of negative experiences
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> Anxiety and rage certainly can indicate pent up emotions and no matter
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> what is driving the situation, he (and you) obviously needs ways to
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> handle it. However, I really encourage you not to force oils on your
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> son that he so clearly dislikes. Even infants and small children
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> gravitate toward oils that are beneficial for them. To force a child
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> intensive anxiety, rage and mistrust than to lessen it.
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> From doing emotional work for myself and with clients I've come to
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> drawn to is the best place to start. As the body/mind/emotions are
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> soothed and supported by those oils, they (we) start to be attracted
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> to other oils and on and on. Very often oils we thoroughly disliked at
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> It is clear that you love your child and I compliment you for asking
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> Jan in Oregon
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> On Feb 1, 9:04 pm, Taylene tayl...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> > I've tried PC on my son twice.  He has anxiety and it turns into rage
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> > real fast.  I was hoping this would calm him down.  But both times it
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> > has made him worse.  He says he "hates the smell!", but I put it on
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> > his feet the second time and he still got really grumpy.
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> > One person suggested that he probably has a bunch of emotions cooped
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> > up and the oil is helping it all come out.  I thought that was wise
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> > counsel, but I'm wondering if anyone else has had experience with
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> > this? They tried an oil long enough that it "purged" the body of
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> > "emotional toxins"?  I just don't want to put him through this every
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> > day if it is unlikely he'll get better over time.  What do you all
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