Wednesday, January 13, 2010

[mompowergroup] Digest Number 281

Messages In This Digest (10 Messages)

1a.
Re: How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares? From: Leonard S. (Lonnie) labriola
2a.
single mom From: Carrie Schillinger
2b.
Re: single mom From: Skye Blue
2c.
Re: single mom From: Terry Peifer
2d.
Re: single mom From: Sherry Sue
2e.
Re: single mom From: Barb
2f.
Re: single mom From: Carolina Land
3a.
Re: Homeschooling Option? From: S.Moghaddam
4a.
Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares? From: scholormom
5a.
Hi everyone! From: J-la

Messages

1a.

Re: How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "Leonard S. (Lonnie) labriola" lonnie@backyarddrills.com   lonnie.labriola

Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:32 am (PST)



Hi Mary

Do you know if they are nightmares or night terrors? Have you ever heard of
Night Terrors? My daughter was plagued by them for years. they are indeed
terrifying.

Lonnie

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From: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com [mailto:mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Cindy Martin-Wolfe
Sent: Saturday, January 09, 2010 1:19 PM
To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [mompowergroup] How do I help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Hi Mary,

I well know how trying this can be. I have children,grandchildren and keep
foster children between abuse and placement. I have dealt with some very
bad nightmares, just bad dreams, and horrible night terrors. I got results
from keeping to a schedule, a clear bedtime routine (about 30 min prior to
bedtime), praying, and using an all natural 'homathpic' remedy for babies &
child sleep issues. It is made by (Hylands) and is for bad dreams,
nightmares, etc.. It comes in instant dissolving tablets that cannot cause
any harm. I promise they work. You can get which ever one you want. They
come under different names. May want to try and see which one works best
per child.

Hylands are bad dream tablets. They also have teething, colic, earache,
sniffles & sneezes, all kinds. They all work miracles. You can get them at
Kmart, Walmart, Walgreen's, almost everywhere, in the baby area. There is
also a wonderful website at www.nativeremedies.
<http://www.nativeremedies.com> com, under child health; they have "Bad
dream sprinkles', 'Serenite Jr', 'Triple complex sleep tonic', 'serenite
plus' all for this problem.

I wish you the very best. And a deep restful sleep for your baby. Cindy

Sat, Jan 9, 2010 at 6:12 AM, Mary Iffert <maryjo60123@
<mailto:maryjo60123@yahoo.com> yahoo.com> wrote:

how about reading the Berenstein Bears book on Dreams before going to sleep
at night, stressing that he is in control as the book suggests?

2a.

single mom

Posted by: "Carrie Schillinger" carrieschillinger@yahoo.com   carrieschillinger

Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:32 am (PST)



Hi Kristy,
 
Maybe you're not giving yourself much credit.  Not everybody wants to spend every minute with their families.  If your ex is on scheduled visits, then ask your friend(s) ahead of time and to make plans to do something.  I think you find that they would be open to spend some time with you (if they are your friends).  Granted there might be some time constraints on their parts, but anytime you spend with someone is less time you have to fill for yourself.  If they then find that it was a good time, then you could possibly suggest making it a regular event.  Just give it a try, it can't hurt.
 
Carrie

2b.

Re: single mom

Posted by: "Skye Blue" fireferry@hotmail.com   fireferrybelle

Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:35 am (PST)




yeah i was the same way. i have a bf who has been here since may. even now i get stir crazy and cry my eyes out at a lifetime w any kids in it at all! how about telling ur friend i have every other weekend w no kids, can we get together and do a gurl nite out for popcorm and movies or meeting for potluck or book club. check ur local paper and see the listing for the upcoming weekends when u have no kids. see if there is a show or a talk about something that u enjoy, ie, gardening, how to built a web site ect at maybe ur local senior center, community center ect. or get together and be more social w church member. if u dont have a church, find one. most towns have loads of them....each sunday for two months try a different chruch in ur town till u find one u feel u fit with. get up and go read the paper at ur local liberty.
or try www.meetup.com
it is a website where ecu can met other peeps w the same inserst as u. just dont sit and watch life time all day!!!!! get up get dressed and get out. enjoy!
Have a great day
Amy~

To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
From: kriszafiris@comcast.net
Date: Sat, 9 Jan 2010 22:57:46 +0000
Subject: [mompowergroup] single mom

Any other single moms out there? I devote so much time to my kids, when they are gone at their dads I'm a little lost and lonely. All my friends are married with families so I feel bad asking them to hangout. Anyone have any tips on how to be alone but not lonely?

Kristy


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2c.

Re: single mom

Posted by: "Terry Peifer" tflaves@gmail.com   momsoptions

Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:59 am (PST)



Hey Kristy - How often does he have the kids? What state are you in? Do
you work?

On Sat, Jan 9, 2010 at 5:57 PM, Kristy <kriszafiris@comcast.net> wrote:

>
>
> Any other single moms out there? I devote so much time to my kids, when
> they are gone at their dads I'm a little lost and lonely. All my friends are
> married with families so I feel bad asking them to hangout. Anyone have any
> tips on how to be alone but not lonely?
>
> Kristy
>
>
>

--
Terry Peifer

2d.

Re: single mom

Posted by: "Sherry Sue" jazzyma44@yahoo.com   jazzyma44

Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:49 am (PST)



I just wanted to Thank You and compliment you on your suggestions.  I am a Single Mom also but I don't have a dad involved.  My daughter is 15 yrs old and she plays in the band at school.  That gives me a break sometimes to do what I want.  I also have become a band booster parent and it is great meeting other parents and participating in school activities.
Sherry

________________________________
From: Skye Blue <fireferry@hotmail.com>
how about telling ur friend i have every other weekend w no kids, can we get together and do a gurl nite out for popcorm and movies or meeting for potluck or book club. check ur local paper and see the listing for the upcoming weekends when u have no kids. see if there is a show or a  talk about something that u enjoy, ie, gardening, how to built a web site ect at maybe ur local senior center, community center ect. or get together and be more social w church member.

2e.

Re: single mom

Posted by: "Barb" barbfromga65@yahoo.com   barbfromga65

Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:49 am (PST)





Hi there, I am also a single mom. I remember the feeling all too well. Still happens but it gets easier. I agree...go ahead and ask...you never know who would be willing to get together, they might be looking for an opportunity to ask you but not know how, so go for it, all they can say is no I figure.

--- In mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com, "Kristy" <kriszafiris@...> wrote:
>
> Any other single moms out there? I devote so much time to my kids, when they are gone at their dads I'm a little lost and lonely. All my friends are married with families so I feel bad asking them to hangout. Anyone have any tips on how to be alone but not lonely?
>
> Kristy
>

2f.

Re: single mom

Posted by: "Carolina Land" cm_orquidea@yahoo.com   cm_orquidea

Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:50 am (PST)



Get involve with Mom's Club, is an international group with chapters everywhere in the country. Also find a new hobby. Scrapbooking, canning,etc. This sort of things are entertaining and could be time consuming. I'm there myself. Going throu divorce. And dealing with all of it. At times I get lonely.
Give me a call sometime. Hope it gets better, prayer and time will do miracles!
Hugs,
Carolina

To: mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com
From: kriszafiris@comcast.net
Date: Sat, 9 Jan 2010 22:57:46 +0000
Subject: [mompowergroup] single mom

Any other single moms out there? I devote so much time to my kids, when they are gone at their dads I'm a little lost and lonely. All my friends are married with families so I feel bad asking them to hangout. Anyone have any tips on how to be alone but not lonely?

Kristy

3a.

Re: Homeschooling Option?

Posted by: "S.Moghaddam" sfayazmoghadam@yahoo.com   sfayazmoghadam

Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:33 am (PST)



Hi
 
i did not find results for: www.OneMinuteHomeschoolTip.com. please let me now more  and if this add is correct?
thanks
Sima

 
 

4a.

Re: How do I  help my son (7) cope with nightmares?

Posted by: "scholormom" wantchevy1961@yahoo.com   wantchevy1961

Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:49 am (PST)



With my kids, I would take an old, unusual looking door key(skeleton key, etc.) and put it on a string and hang it above their bed. Then every night before bed, they would take it down and hold it while saying, "This is my dream key. When dreams turn bad, turn the key to good dreams." It worked for my kids. Let them choose the string or ribbon for it too. It makes them feel important. Hope this helps.

--- In mompowergroup@yahoogroups.com, Elizabeth de los Santos <elizabethrdls@...> wrote:
>
> Saying a prayer before going to sleep might help.  It is also a kind of setting the  mind to pleasant     thoughts.   Here's a prayer my son and I used to pray when they were 2-5 years old:
>
>      Angel of God, my Guardian dear
>      To whom His love,  commits me here.
>      Ever this day, be at my side
>      To light and guide,  to rule and guard, Amen.
>
>       Dear God, bless mama, bless Papa, Bless my brothers and sisters
>       Bless Uncles and Aunties,  Bless also my pet dog Panda, and my classmates and
>       friends,  Amen.
>
> Elizabeth R. de los Santos
>

5a.

Hi everyone!

Posted by: "J-la" jaalajensen@yahoo.com   jaalajensen

Tue Jan 12, 2010 11:33 am (PST)



I am Jaala, a mommy of four wonderful kids.. We currently homeschool and try to live as naturally and simply as possible. HA! Not sure if anyone is interested, or has any expertise...but I am always looking for natural/organic cooking and healthy living tips:) I have created a group called for moms to share eco friendly living and natural living tid bits..all are welcome to jump in.It would be fun to see/hear what others around the world are doing in respect to these issues!Not sure if I am allowed to post the info here???
Jaala

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